Pre-Signed Sympathy Cards On Sale Here

Mass intentions are an area of sacramental theology that require more theological reflection (see the recent articles by John Baldovin here and here).

In Ireland the practice of giving a Mass Card when you pay your respects at a funeral or a wake is still very common. Funerals are still a major social event here and it isn’t unusual for the family of the deceased to receive a couple of hundred Mass cards from the different mourners.

A few years ago this led to legislation in the Charities Act that specifically dealt with Mass cards.  The law basically says that pre-signed Mass cards cannot be sold in commercial outlets (unsigned Mass cards, that one brings to the local parish for signing, are not affected). This legislation was to curb the practice of fake Mass cards, or Mass cards that kept the majority of the offering with the retailer and sent only a few cents to a priest in another country who would often be asked to offer a single Mass for hundreds of cards.

This was challenged by Thomas McNally in a case that went all the way to the High Court case.  McNally claimed that “unlawfully conferred a monopoly on the sale of Mass cards to clerics of the Catholic Church.”  It transpired that McNally was a major dealer of Mass cards and “sold 120,000 cards per year and had an agreement with a Polish priest based in the West Indies.”  McNally paid €3,600 annually to this priest for saying a few collective Masses a month, which was a small percentage of the €250,000 he made from the sale of Mass cards. The High Court challenge failed and most people think that the matter is now resolved.

A few days ago I was in my local post office and I noticed a new spin on the controversy.  A poster advertised “Pre-Signed Sympathy Cards On Sale Here.”  The poster also advertised various types of “bouquets” for different occasions.  I looked at one of the cards and inside it stated that “The intention of the happy repose of the soul of …. will be remembered in the prayers of [signature] Catholic priest.”  The poster clarified that the cards are not Mass cards, but this is a clear attempt to get around the law as the normal person would probably not notice the difference.

I know that as a priest people often ask me to remember someone in my prayers.  Honestly, I do not think my prayers are worth more than the person who asks me and while I agree to pray for the person in question, I usually tell the individual that their own prayer “counts” as much as mine.  Now the idea of a priest being paid to pray for generic intentions that will be sold through post offices, petrol stations and other shops, strikes me as wrong. Ultimately this lends weight to John Baldovin’s case that the whole area of Mass offerings needs more reflection and catechesis.

Fr. Neil Xavier O'Donoghue

Neil Xavier O’Donoghue is originally from Cork, Ireland. He is a presbyter of the Archdiocese of Newark, NJ who has ministered in parishes on both sides of the Atlantic. He has spent many years as an academic mentor to seminarians. Neil currently serves as Programme Director for Liturgical Programmes at the Pontifical University and as Acting Director of the National Centre for Liturgy. Since 2020 he has also served as the Executive Secretary for Liturgy to the Irish Catholic Bishops Conference. He has studied at Seton Hall University (BA, MDiv), the University of Notre Dame (MA), and St Vladimir’s Orthodox Theological Seminary (MTh). He holds a Doctorate in Theology (Ph.D.) from St Patrick’s College, Maynooth and is in the process of completing a second doctorate (D.D) in the Pontifical Facultad de Teología Redemptoris Mater in Callao, Peru. Neil has published a translation of the Confessio of St. Patrick: St. Patrick: His Confession and Other Works (Totowa, NJ, 2009), as well editing the third edition of Fredrick Edward Warren’s The Liturgy and Ritual of the Celtic Church (Piscataway, NJ, 2010). In 2011 the University of Notre Dame Press published The Eucharist in Pre-Norman Ireland an adaptation of his doctoral thesis and in 2017 the Alcuin Club published his Liturgical Orientation: The Position of the President at the Eucharist. His articles have appeared in The Irish Theological Quarterly, New Blackfriars, The Furrow and Antiphon. He writes a monthly article on some aspect of the theology of Pope Francis in the Messenger of St. Anthony and blogs regularly at PrayTell.

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2 responses to “Pre-Signed Sympathy Cards On Sale Here”

  1. Alan Griffiths

    What an interesting contribution and thanks to Fr. O’Donogue for bringing this up.

    It just goes to show what an unequal, corrupt and corrupting system the whole payment-masquerading-as-Mass-offerings industry is.

    I know we are talking about abusive behaviours, but abuses will flourish only where the general climate conditions are favourable.

    AG

  2. Katarina Wikholm

    That text in the card, a commercialised card sold for money to mourners, puts me in mind of the old indulgence trade.
    It’s not intended as criticism of Catholic practices – I’m Lutheran – more of predators preying on those in need of solace, which can be done by any charlatan, religious or profane.


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