On Veiling in Worship

In an intriguing twist on ancient and ever new concerns over women’s appropriate attire in worship, recent years have witnessed a renewed interest in chapel veils, aka mantillas, in some Catholic circles.  How to think about this renewed interest?  As someone with a scholarly interest in performances of gender and practices of liturgy, I offer the following thoughts.

First, the renewed interest in chapel veils should not be read, simply and exclusively, as a manifestation of a traditionalist mind-set — even if the sale of chapel veils, particularly online, is usually linked to tradical groups within the Catholic Church.  Yet chapel veils also have appeal as part of a broader resurgence of practices of popular piety, especially among younger Catholics.  Some women within this age group have begun to wear mantillas in worship as a way to enter an older, richer liturgical materiality that they never knew, since their parents had gladly left it behind.  These young women are surprised to be seen as traditionalists, or as women opposed to women’s freedom from (what some see as) traditional signs of inequality.

Second, in the interest of full disclosure:  I myself cherish my grandmother’s mantilla and have been known to wear it, for example to a Tridentine Mass.  The point here is this:  wearing a chapel veil in the early twenty-first century is — to use a grandiose term — a multivalent sign.  It can mean a million different things, and we do well not to read this multivalent sign as simply a critique of post-Vatican II liturgical reforms, backwardness, mis-interpretation, or a combination of all of these.

That said, and this is my third point, a sudden increase of women donning veils in a particular parish served by a particularly conservative priest would trouble me, I think.  What would trouble me most is not the women wearing veils but the overall vision of the parish. If the problem were just the women wearing veils, I might gather my women friends and commit to coming to Mass in outlandish hats every Sunday; we could start a liturgical head-gear contest that way (which I am sure existed when women traditionally wore hats or veils to chapel in any case).  What I am trying to say is that in the case of such a parish, women’s chapel veils are part of a much larger problematic, and this problematic cannot be solved by attending to chapel veils.

As will be obvious by now, my own sense about the renewed interest in chapel veils is less dogmatic than my professional commitments to liturgical scholarship might suggest. If a young woman came to me and told me that wearing a chapel veil helps her, through bodily posture and attire, to enter more deeply into prayer, I would willingly hear that.  I might even bring out my grandmother’s mantilla and see whether it can help me in the same way; I need all the help I can get with deepening the life of prayer, after all.  In fact, a broader conversation with the young women might develop, about the rich and complex history of veils in worship (not only women were veiled and unveiled, after all).  I might even tell the young woman that at least one community in the early Liturgical Movement of the twentieth-century encouraged women to veil for worship and provided mantillas for that purpose at the entry to the sanctuary.

If, on the other hand, a priest in the parish I attended encouraged women to veil in worship as part of a larger tradical turn, I probably rethink my commitments to that particular parish.  Or I might begin to wear counter-signs: the most flamboyant hat imaginable, or maybe a biretta purchased on eBay?

The long and short is this: head-coverings have a rich and complex history in Christian worship (and women’s hair and faces in particular have long been sites of liturgical anxieties).  Yet in our times, as maybe never before, these gender-specific clothing signs have become malleable, and can now “mean” a multitude of things. I actually appreciate that as a new freedom.

Teresa Berger

Teresa Berger is Professor of Liturgical Studies at the Yale Institute of Sacred Music and Yale Divinity School in New Haven, CT, USA, where she also serves as the Thomas E. Golden Jr. Professor of Catholic Theology. She holds doctorates in both theology and in liturgical studies. Recent publications include an edited volume, Full of Your Glory: Liturgy, Cosmos, Creation (2019), and a monograph titled @ Worship: Liturgical Practices in Digital Worlds (2018). Earlier publications include Gender Differences and the Making of Liturgical History (2011), Fragments of Real Presence (2005), and a video documentary, Worship in Women’s Hands (2007).

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39 responses to “On Veiling in Worship”

  1. Fr. Jack Feehily

    When it was customary for females to cover their heads in church, it was also customary for them to wear hats and other head coverings in a variety of social settings. Since “veiling” (or should I say “kleenexing”) was a Catholic custom it can hardly be said to have driven the wider social custom. In the 60’s, fashions changed and among them was the practice of hat wearing by women. As the liturgical movement involved a closer examination of customs associated with worship and worshipers, more of us became aware that veiling was associated with an admonition by St. Paul that was linked to his directive to women to keep quiet when the church was assembled. It was not long before few priests could provide a rationale for women to cover their heads. And though it was an uphill battle to provide women with permission to speak in church by reading the lessons or leading the petitions, it soon became commonplace.
    Wearing veils is, in my view, like ringing bells or priests wearing birettas. These practices are associated with either the extraordinary form of the Mass or by the movement known as the reform of the reform. There seems to be an assumption that restoring an older piety will result in a return to the “good old days”. While these idiosyncrasies may be benign, I see no sign of any kind of mass movement–pun intended–to reintroduce them on a wide-scale basis. I have two women who are close friends who about three years ago decided they were going to wear hats or head coverings of some type at Mass. Their hope was that it would start a trend. I believe I’ve noticed one other woman take up the practice since. Occasionally a newcomer will ask me why we don’t “ring bells” at the consecration. I respond by telling them that the rubrics make no provision for this practice and ask them what purpose that would serve. The response is usually silence.
    By the way, I am aware that the GIRM addresses
    “bells that may be wrung”, but it is not included in the rubrics.

    1. Joshua Vas

      @Fr. Jack Feehily:
      Lots of things aren’t included in “the rubrics” Jack. Whatever made the rubrics of the Order of the Mass a canon within the canon, and relegated the IGMR to a secondary position ?

      Besides, I honestly cannot see why every single little thing has to be filtered through the prism of ‘this was the awful experience and context of the 60s/50s/whenever’. How about being a tad bit nuanced as Teresa was in post, about the polyvalence and richness of symbols, and the different ways in which they speak to people? Honestly, sometimes it is every bit as dictatorial and clericalist as some on the opposite end of the spectrum.

      FWIW, bells aren’t the exclusive preserve of traditionalists but are used in all types of parishes. I have even been to a church of bell-ringing, male-only servers where the priests did not so much as open the Roman Missal but prayed extempore from beginning to end.

  2. Lee Bacchi

    If you have ever seen the play “Crowns,” about the hats that African-American women in the U.S. South wear, you know the importance these women place on what they wear to Sunday worship, especially on their heads. Veiling may be more of a cultural custom.

  3. Crystal Watson

    Maybe as hijabs have recently become something of a fashion statement for some non-Muslims, the mantilla is a Christian version of that tendency? I think it’s a bit creepy, given that the origins of religious head/hair coverings for women seem to be discriminatory.

  4. Alan Hommerding

    What similar clothing options are available to the male members of the laity who wish to deepen their prayer/spiritual experience at liturgy?

    1. @Alan Hommerding:
      Tuck that shirt in! Wear a tie or blazer or both!

    2. Steve Woodland

      @Alan Hommerding:
      I would propose that they always wear trousers.

  5. Barbara Matievich

    I am of an age that remembers wearing a hat to Mass. Lace chapel veils were a minimalistic reduction of a hat. As were those cheap mantillas. Soon hats became nothing more than a piece of netting with maybe one or two tiny bows. Kleenex was seen at times. The era of hats and gloves always worn in public died away. I have no recollection of a hatted head bringing me to deeper prayer. It us a wonderful thing that women can choose what to wear rather than having it decided for them.

  6. Crystal Watson

    The idea that what you’re wearing could improve your prayer life sounds pious and almost sensible until you try to imagine Jesus, out in the countryside by himself, putting on some specialized headgear before praying so he could get a better effect 🙂

    1. Fr. Jarrod Waugh, CSC

      @Crystal Watson:
      Right. Because Jews aren’t known for their spiritual headwear…I’m not so sure about that. It’s very likely Jesus covered his head to pray in the Temple.

    2. Shaughn Casey

      @Crystal Watson:

      You mean like the tefillin, which he and every devout first century Jewish male would use every day of his adult life for his morning prayers? 😉

      1. Teresa Berger

        @Shaughn Casey:
        Precisely!

    3. Teresa Berger

      @Crystal Watson:
      Well, Jeus will have worn what pious Jewish men wore at the time — and that included devotional “accessories” in accordance with the OT book of Leviticus, we have to assume… at least the “Jewish New Testament” encourages us to do so.

  7. James Dunne

    Crystal – I wasn’t sure if that was the irony emoji. I imagine it’s more likely than not that Jesus would have covered his head for prayer since it was, I believe, the custom at the time.

  8. Alan #5 Maybe men could wear a zucchetto, tassles optional? colour to reflect the liturgical cycle?

  9. Teresa Berger

    Not completely unrelated: the Orthodox Church venerated the veil of Mary, mother of God, in Constantinople. And the Western church actually venerated a double veil: it was worn by St. Elisabeth of Thuringia/Hungary and, after she died very young and was subsequently canonized with astounding speed, the veil was worn by her aunt Hedwig of Silesia, who after her holy life was canonized too.

    1. Elisabeth Ahn

      @Teresa Berger:

      …the Western church actually venerated a double veil: it was worn by St. Elisabeth of Thuringia/Hungary…

      This is good to know!

      Wearing a veil is quite common among the ladies in Korea, and I too sometimes wear it, but, obviously, for all the “wrong” reasons. I do it because it’s very pretty and it makes me feel like a lady too.

      From now on though, I’m going to start envisioning, and when asked, saying I’m just following the way of my namesake saint.

      🙂

  10. Crystal Watson

    When the disciples asked Jesus how they should pray, he made no mention of special clothing. Though he prayed at the temple, he also prayed out of doors in what I assume would be relaxed circumstances. Are you guys really saying that what matters in prayer is what you’re wearing, or that Jesus was all about traditional rule-following in the area of religious practice?

    1. Shaughn Casey

      @Crystal Watson:

      Neither. I’m saying some people’s internal spirituality is enhanced by altering their external environment, to include clothes. Thus people wear scapulars, habits, “church clothes,” tefillin, or mantillas. It’s not something that should be dismissed out of hand as absurd.

      I kneel outwardly and pray that I may kneel inwardly.

      1. Silvia Gosnell

        *Thank you* for restoring the relationship between inward & outward, which (in my experience) is bi-directional.

  11. Conor Cook

    I’m surprised no one has brought up the theology of veiling at Mass. That there is a thriving theology of sexual difference at play, and that veiling indicates a respect for the female form (veiling seems specifically designed to counteract the tendency to place women on a pedestal, which would make them more visible and uncovered, not less).

    Regarding some of the bell-ringing above, the reforms didn’t really start from a ground-up mentality. If bell-ringing, or anything, really, wasn’t explicitly removed/changed, there is no reason to think it shouldn’t happen in the corresponding places. If forms were changed, so that those many single bell rings don’t fit, then their absence seems prudent.

    1. @Conor Cook:
      Veiling, as St Paul advocated with Gentile Christians, was a pagan custom in the ancient world. We can take pagan, natural, or any custom or experience, and place a Christian theological meaning to it. Christmas trees, Advent wreaths, Easter eggs … oil, bread, water, wine, hands. Greenery is not always pagan, and bread is not always the Eucharist. Sometimes veils build a pedestal.

      Sexual differences might be theological. Or it might be biology. Or it might just be individual differences.

      As for the discussion of modesty, there is also a modesty of expression.

      1. Bill deHaas

        @Todd Flowerday:
        Thank you, Todd – yep, Mr. Hazell reminded me of the saying – preach the gospel; if you have to; use words.

    2. Elisabeth Ahn

      @ Conor Cook #20:

      … veiling indicates a respect for the female form…

      This is interesting.

      I’ve just always thought it was intended to show respect for God.

      Well, that’s the meaning I give now to this particular gender-specific clothing sign that is imbued with such a complicated history anyway, as I do think, my silly previous post aside, there is something very nice about covering and bowing one’s head before the Lord.

      @ Karl Liam Saur #34:

      …people who don’t share the worldview that the shibboleth is coming to signify within a community can randomly wear it or not.

      To hasten the effects, perhaps men could also join in the effort. If nothing else, that will surely throw off those shibbolethers.

      (a new word learned today: “shibboleth” and it’s a most fabulous word!)

      1. Karl Liam Saur

        @Elisabeth Ahn:
        That’s why I wrote “people”….

        Todd Flowerday can testify from nearly 15-20 years of interacting with me on the ‘Net that shibboleths are my shibboleth – they are the nail my hammer guns for. There’s a method to my madness in that regard. For example, when I read paeans to “strong identity” and then find that’s it’s more about relying on the crutch of shibboleths than more difficult things (which is too often the case), I understand how my own human nature is very similar to that of others. Shibboleths are a placeholder we often settle for in lieu of something more elusive, more demanding yet less grandiose in terms of appeal to our id/ego/superego – something that might involve accepting silence or absence or another form of dryness/dark nights of the soul/senses, for example (because it’s natural to recoil from such a prospect).

        A great examen question: what are my shibboleths and how/when do I resort to them?

        Ultimately, it all ties back to the most memorable homily of my life, some 40-45 years ago, which was on the parable of the Pharisee and the publican, and was a single pregnant sentence, roughly: How many of us are thanking God we are not like that Pharisee?

        And that reminds me to be grateful for God’s mercy and redemption, because I need it and am incapable of redeeming myself.

  12. Fr. Jack Feehily

    Excuse me, but methinks the emperor has no clothes. Everyone who has studied the history of the liturgy knows that the ringing of bells (and other old habits) do not date to the earliest centuries of the church. Bell ringing did not occur until a concern for protecting the doctrine of the real presence arose in late medieval Europe. Until that dispute, worshipers preoccupied themselves with various shrines and devotions while the clerical liturgy transpired at the often distant altar. Someone introduced bells to provide warnings to worshipers that the most important part of the Mass was about to take place: The Consecration. The Tridentine Mass never presumed cognitive attention on the part of the faithful. The Novus Ordo does. The Rites of the Mass are an integrated whole, not distinct parts some of which one may safely ignore while others require special attention. Full, conscious, and active participation in the Divine Liturgy does not require veils, birettas, or bells. It does require, among others things, a belief that Jesus Christ becomes truly present to us for a purpose even greater than beholding him. It is indeed wondrous that bread and wine give way to the power of the Holy Spirit so we may behold the Lamb of God who takes away our sins. But it is even more than wondrous that those receiving Holy Communion are to give way so that our very substance may be sanctified, enabling us to assume our share of Christ’s mission.

  13. Crystal Watson

    There’s a kind of conflation of two ideas …. 1) that the efficacy of praying can be affected by outward actions, posture, and attire … with the idea that 2) it is seemly for women to cover up their hair/bodies at church.

    I think both these assumptions are questionable, but at least the first one isn’t about controlling women in particular.

    1. Shaughn Casey

      @Crystal Watson:

      Hi Crystal,

      1) It’s probably worth reading about sacramentals, as it would directly address what we’re not seeing eye to eye about on externals affecting internal disposition.

      2) I wouldn’t agree with that idea, either. I would say, though, that it is seemly for people to do what helps them as individuals focus their attention and their interior disposition for worship. For some, that might mean dressing a certain way. For others, it may not. I would never tell my wife to wear a veil. In the (unlikely) event that she finds that doing so helps her spirituality, that’s her business. I know several women who prefer wearing them. Oughtn’t they be allowed to do so, if they choose?

  14. Lengthy quotations can be the sort of thing that is frowned upon in a discussion, but, as veiling is ordered towards modesty, I thought that the Catechism’s words on modesty (for both men and women!) would provide further food for thought on this topic:

    Purity requires modesty, an integral part of temperance. Modesty protects the intimate centre of the person. It means refusing to unveil what should remain hidden. It is ordered to chastity to whose sensitivity it bears witness. It guides how one looks at others and behaves toward them in conformity with the dignity of persons and their solidarity.

    Modesty protects the mystery of persons and their love. It encourages patience and moderation in loving relationships; it requires that the conditions for the definitive giving and commitment of man and woman to one another be fulfilled. Modesty is decency. It inspires one’s choice of clothing. It keeps silence or reserve where there is evident risk of unhealthy curiosity. It is discreet.

    There is a modesty of the feelings as well as of the body. It protests, for example, against the voyeuristic explorations of the human body in certain advertisements, or against the solicitations of certain media that go too far in the exhibition of intimate things. Modesty inspires a way of life which makes it possible to resist the allurements of fashion and the pressures of prevailing ideologies.

    The forms taken by modesty vary from one culture to another. Everywhere, however, modesty exists as an intuition of the spiritual dignity proper to man. It is born with the awakening consciousness of being a subject. Teaching modesty to children and adolescents means awakening in them respect for the human person. (CCC 2521-2524)

  15. Crystal Watson

    “Veils … know several women who prefer wearing them. Oughtn’t they be allowed to do so, if they choose?”

    Sure.

    I guess it always bothers me, though, when I see people embracing customs that have discriminatory roots.

  16. Rita Ferrone Avatar
    Rita Ferrone

    I believe the discomfiture that some women feel at this development needs to be heard and respected in parishes where the custom is being revived. The practice has been part of their experience too, but as a negative.

    Women who remember being forced to wear head coverings, and as Teresa says, left it aside as soon as they were permitted to do so, retain those memories and feelings. For some it is the tip of an iceberg, concerning the place of women in the church and their painful experiences of subordination and being told what to do.

    Many nuns had similar feelings, and if one asks them the stories come out. The uncomfortable feelings, as well as the joyous feelings of those who like this, need to be heard. They are not addressed by remaining silent. They need to tell their stories.

    1. Bill deHaas

      @Rita Ferrone:
      Thanks, Rita……can remember the stories of my grandmother and mother about this *relic*.
      Suggest – customs come and go; leave it up to personal taste but do NOT judge, command, or order a specific practice.
      Like *bell ringing* (agree Fr. Jack) you have some pastors and parishes that either never ended bells or were waiting for the right pastor to bring them back. It gets to your understanding of eucharist (is it an action of the community or an object to be alerted about or, at best, seen as a sign of specialness (not sure why???) and your understanding of sacraments and ecclesiology. It goes hand in hand with those who insist on having a tabernacle in the sanctuary; preferably behind the altar.

      Veils – personal choice (agree – sacramentals; physical signs/symbols do help some folks but strongly disagree with those who want to make this a rule, obligation, etc.)
      Veils – nostalgia? museum piece?

      Wonder – does it increase or enhance the community eucharistic action or does it merely focus on individual spirituality, motivations, etc. (one issue we face today is the very strong individualism in our society, customs, cultures).

  17. Melissa Maykuth

    I’ve read these comments with interest and gratitude. I should start by stating that I appreciate that veiling helps others to feel more prayerful and reverent during the mass. I also struggle with veiling because I already struggle with the status of women in the church, and veiling is quite gender specific.

    I’m writing to offer a view from the pews and parish life. This has become a bit of an issue at our parish, with someone new wearing a veil every 2-3 weeks. I am in a rural parish, and the nearest parish is about 45 minutes away. This means that our parish needs to be many things to many people. In contrast to my experiences in Cincinnati, Syracuse, and McAllen, you can’t just choose a parish that fits your style.

    Our priest does not specifically encourage wearing a veil, but you can sense his excitement that people are veiling. Several leaders within our parish (on council and religious ed) are wearing veils or married to women who do. Most of the women who veil are SAHM who believe that women should be home with young children, and ideally home-school those children down the road.

    This has created a strong “us and them” dynamic within the parish. Those of us who struggle with veiling feel uncomfortable saying so, as the response would be “why should my prayer style make you uncomfortable?” It’s hard to argue with that, and yes, they’re right. On the other hand, there’s a sense that if it helps others to be more reverent, then why aren’t we all doing it? (perhaps I would also be more reverent if I wasn’t wrangling a 15 month old and trying to keep my 5 and 7 year old boys from pinching each other, but that’s for another day) I worry that veiling has promoted individualism at the expense of communal worship, yet I worry that I sound selfish in saying that.

    Maybe this is just a catty dynamic among parish women. I suspect our priest is unaware of the dynamic, but I shouldn’t expect him to understand the sometimes odd social world of grown women (it’s like the mommy wars have exploded within our parish).

  18. Linda Daily

    I tend to view acts like veiling, genuflecting in the communion line before receiving, certain postures and poses that draw attention to self rather than God as a particular phase of Catholic identity development. Certain externals shape behavior, much in the same way my ‘Teach Peace’ bumpersticker kept me from driving aggressively when I was younger, until courteous driving became a habit. In a generation of external expression (tattoos, piercings, multicolored hair,etc ), wearing religion on the outside might help some to express their Catholic identity and stay connected to Gospels values until their faith becomes internally grounded.

    1. Shaughn Casey

      @Linda Daily:

      Conscious of that concern, my family tends to sit in the back in church. 😉

    2. Silvia Gosnell

      And, for some (e.g., me), the movement is in the other direction — viz., from the inside -> out, not an outward expression shaping inward experience.

  19. John Kohanski

    An interesting flip side to this was when I was in Sagrada Familia in Barcelona this past autumn. Docents/virgers, whatever they are called that are there to maintain order, answer questions, etc. were walking around having everyone, men and women, remove their hats. Very egalitarian.

  20. Karl Liam Saur

    If the veil/headgear risks becoming a shibboleth in a parish, one of the ways to defuse it is to scramble it – people who don’t share the worldview that the shibboleth is coming to signify within a community can randomly wear it or not. That dilutes its power as a shibboleth and works to restore its multi-valency.


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