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The paperwork for admission to the hospital was on his table. His last conversation with his son did not end well. They argued about a favor his son had requested, and hung up on each other. The old widower had been coughing up blood. He stared at his phone, and decided not to call.<\/p>\n

He came home from church, having given his heart and soul to leading and preaching, and looked around his empty condo. His ex-wife and kids were in the house he used to live in. Overcome by emotion, he went for a drive, only to see families walking and biking together. He pulled over and wept bitterly.<\/p>\n

She had a health scare and ended up in the hospital for a few days. Her kids were with their father. Her friends texted and called, but she spent most of the time alone in the hospital, yearning for a loved one to sit with her. This memory brought tears to her eyes.<\/p>\n

His daughter had been home, sick, for several days. The doctor said it was probably COVID, despite the negative test results. As soon as she recovered, he became ill. She had a choir concert, so he rose from the bed of illness, watching the concert, hoping the people around him wouldn\u2019t notice his dry cough. He kept his head down, unable to see parents, siblings, and grandparents supporting their kids as he, a widower, sat by himself.<\/p>\n

Three of these episodes are real, and one is from a feature film. All of them provide snapshots into the cold loneliness experienced daily by the unnoticed<\/em>.<\/p>\n

The unnoticed are all around us. Divorced men and women learning to experience life all by themselves, often alienated from family members, living in tension with children, struggling to manage busy schedules of work, family, and newfound single life. Suffering with the pain of separation, coming to terms with themselves, tending to their own wounds of pain, working feverishly to assure their children of their love \u2013 the divorced unnoticed are expected to be at the top of their game at work and as parents and friends.<\/p>\n

The prevailing view of widows in our culture is that they mourn their loss for a period of time before re-entering life. Many widows are learning how to handle daily tasks for the first time \u2013 managing finances, tending to a household, even learning new skills. I know widows who couldn\u2019t cook and I taught a new widow how to drive some years ago.<\/p>\n

Quick-hit reactions and web searches yield success stories. They tell us about divorced people who rejoice in their freedom, live it up, and find new love right away. We hear about villages rallying around widows, cooking for them, watching their children, mowing their lawns and shoveling their driveways. I read an essay in the New York Times<\/a> written by a guest columnist who had advice for women who wanted to woo a new widower, arming them with strategies on timing and tactics.<\/p>\n

In my experience as a widower and a confidant of other widows and divorced people, these stories do not represent reality. Divorced people searching for support find themselves grasping for straws to meet people for companionship. Widows and widowers wander through a multi-layered fog. Their friends imagine them sitting at home, missing their spouses. But there is that other fog, the one that overcomes one\u2019s brain, making one freeze without moving. Preparing meals, dropping and picking up kids, working, paying bills, managing a household \u2013 the sheer volume of things that need to be done create a fog, and one can truly become momentarily frozen from not knowing where to begin.<\/p>\n

The Church responds to widowed grief by emphasizing support from the time of death up until the funeral, and perhaps for a short period of time afterwards. Some parishes host support groups for people whose mourning has no expiration date. Christians offer this kind of support before those who suffered loss become unnoticed. In most cases, support is offered to survivors of a loved one\u2019s death. Support for those suffering the loss of marital and family life can be rare, as if divorce did not inflict loss, pain, and fog. Indeed, it does.<\/p>\n

In response to an appeal for more support, theologians will be tempted to create a new liturgy. Assembling the Church to pray with the unnoticed would be a beautiful service, an important gesture, and an opportunity to reach out to broken people, limping through life, who have fallen off our proverbial radars.<\/p>\n

As much as I would like to initiate the creative process of composing an office of prayer for the unnoticed, it is unnecessary. The liturgy of serving the unnoticed and lifting them up in support is right before our eyes in the Scriptures. This liturgy is one of action. It requires assembly, but the action does not draw the faithful from the world into the Church, but it flows in the other direction. It is an act of sending the faithful into the world, to be alert and aware, to hear and listen and see, to meet the unnoticed in their midst.<\/p>\n

The liturgy is a service for the unnoticed with no expiration date. It sends Christians to shovel snow and mow lawns, to make meals, to assist with rides, to deliver groceries, to help with medical appointments and overnights, and to assist as needed.<\/p>\n

Above all, this liturgy sends Christians to become the companions of the unnoticed \u2013 to walk with them, through the fog of grief and the brain fog that confounds and freezes. And finally, the service is free \u2013 it asks nothing of return because it is a free gift of grace and love that has no fee, and no strings attached.<\/p>\n

The unnoticed are among us, bearing the weight of their crosses; may God send servants to ease their burden.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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